Virginity

The Marriage

In the life of men and women, the marriage is the single most defining act in all the days of either. Two individuals joining together seeking to coordinate as One all the while clinging to their own individuality.

The attraction between men and women is the sexual drive, the compelling drive that assures the continuation of the species. There is no doubt marriage is not necessary achieve this end but without  the marriage all subsequent kingdoms, governments, tribes, over time will fail and disintegrate, leaving not a trace. 

The foundations upon which men and women i.e. societies rest and continues is the marriage and if men and women, via children all must contribute and labor to the continuation of the foundation to assure the house built atop, at all times, have stable ground beneath it.

The ground has to be an enduring, steadfast stone without fissions a seamless, soundness without imperfections thereby assuring a continuing generation exact in everyway as the former.

The arranged marriage

The marriage, the stones of upon which all things begin the arranged marriage is most desirable. The arranged marriage assures each a mate of similar background faith, upbringing and in turn produce children who replicates behavior of the mother and the father thereby assuring their place in the extended family, tribe, faith, kingdom, government but most importantly the arrange marriage assures sexual purity on their wedding bed.

They send forth their little ones like a flock, and their children dance. They take the timbrel and harp, and rejoice at the sound of the organ. They spend their days in wealth, and in a moment go down to the grave.

Their children - also shall be dashed to pieces before their eyes; their houses shall be spoiled, and their wives ravished..

Today for the time being anyway, it is unrealistic to propose a return to the time of arranged marriage yet many women and men of differing cultures see and welcome the practice of the arranged union knowing the arranged nuptials not only unifies the men and the women but incorporates them into a stable support system that support and nurtures, the wife, husband and children, and establishes their place in the earth.

Women need to know their place

Within societies it is essential that women have a genuine input in all societal matters, They must have a place without the interference of men.

Women need a rest where only they commune and decide for themselves what is best for them and moreover have a seat in the broader workings government, society, religion and a legitimate forum from which to espouse their input not only to speak but be listened to and heard.

Thereafter they must be given and then take possession of a functional governmental apparatus by which to carry out the considerations they have devise and thought-out for themselves without interference from contrary men.  However women should expect and receive the full support of men. 

Note ‘the Women's place’ is not to promote or create a dictatorial platform for women but to establish a full and equal working partnership between the women and the men to determining what is best for all concerned.

You have to serve somebody.

It may be the devil or it may be the Lord

But you have to serve somebody

                            Bob Dylan

Due to this migratory culture we all live in today, young men and women, ‘looking’, for a mates, in many cases find and court and marry people who have divergent background, faiths, socialization, cultures, than them selves.

These un-similarities they put aside with the cavalier pronouncement, ‘Love conquers all’. Love is grand but love can only be demonstrated by the giving of one’s, time. To heal, to feed, mend, visit, carry. Love is the giving of your time.

 In the  marriage  the binding ingredient is a unchanging belief a single purpose that binds each together and both set out to achieve. In marriage the individual is always present and subject to abrupt and sometime erratic change. And sometimes love or even family is not enough to prevent forthcoming pain.

It si mandatory for  the family, to find and focus on a single belief, that brings and converges all differing aspect of their backgrounds to singularity of reason for their being together. The wedding vows, love one another, honor the vow and obey the teaching of RA.

However if you have not committed yourselves fully and accepted your responsibility to the world at large, that vow bbecomes absolutely meaningless but to break that vow, is not without it’s consequence.

In RA, male and females  are incorporated into the greater world of citizens who steadfastly work to create a world where all men, women and their children are given understanding, by virtue of one language the language of RA’s universal law.

Now moving on to the question of Sex

Or, Sex is nothing!

Most unfaithful people, once found out, often seek to modify their treachery by exclaiming, ‘It was nothing. He or she means nothing to me. It was only sex. But I only love you!’

Of course none of these feeble declaration eases the dreadful pain of betrayal and the quintessential essence of marriage ‘trust’ is lost forever. Gone.

 Once a Virgin has sex, thereafter all you can do, is have it again.

Men bringing passion request, women desired acquiesce but he or she can only do that once in a life time, thereafter they’re only doing it again regardless of with whom.

There are seven-billion people on the earth and over half of them are women. So sex certainly isn’t a rare commodity and it’s surely  isn’t going go out of fashion and all, women and men essentially share the same drives to differing degrees, yet many marriages falter or fail, due to infidelity.

Sex is only what the individual bring to it. The drive itself is like a switch that is turned on at puberty and switched off, on the death bed.

Between those two point sex can’t be satisfied, sated, appeased, reasoned with and certainly not ignored, for very long anyway.

Sex and the drive is a gift from God given freely to all, to keep and manage their entire lives. You’re welcome, no need to thank Me, enjoy.

So most reconcile themselves to that fact and begin the supervision of their libido using various methods to do so. Be it religion, cold showers, onanism long walks, yoga, or what ever works until they find the true expression by which their sexual longings are thoroughly satisfied, marriage and in marriage they find complete sexual gratification for the rest of their lives. Ahaaaaa.

Virginity

For as a young man marrieth a virgin, so shall thy sons marry thee: and as the bridegroom rejoiceth over the bride, so shall thy God rejoice over thee.

Virginity is a product of the people however today there is no place called virgin-land where chastity resides where it is expected to be kept until marriage and is respected by men and cherished and prized.

Your sons and daughter who you are going to  raised up to the glory of the lord and those young men and women who have made the choice preserve themselves for the wedding bed exchange and share exclusivity for life. Blessed are ye.

For the chaste, the marriage bed will be your  first sexual encounter and it will leave an indelible imprint on your sexual mind until the day you die.

Thereafter the sexual life you develop will belong to you  and your spouse exclusively, without longing for lascivious behavior of the past.

Nonetheless temptation does not always come in the form of sexual longings it can be an appealing smile, a pretty face, a kind word.  An old admonishment, ‘Play with fire and you’ll get burned.’

These allures can put a mens/womens integrity to the utmost test causing wrestling in the soul both day in night however not in your sexual head, although sex is considered you cannot see beyond your first experience with your husband or wife.

There is no longings nor membranes of past encounters with someone other than your mate and in time the infatuation will pass, giving way to the realities of your responsibilities to the life you chose, as without damage you begin to see the fascination you held was only a mirage.

Love God and keep His commandment and live forever.

ISamuel